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The Best Gay Dating Tips
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Posted On :
May-15-2011
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On the whole, the rules of dating are universal. Listen a lot, ask questions, don't leave long silences and chew with your mouth closed and everything else that goes with it. Below some specifi tips for gay dating.
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On the whole, the rules of dating are universal. Listen a lot, ask questions, don't leave long silences and chew with your mouth closed and everything else that goes with it.
Gay dating, I suppose, is no different. Everyone goes out expecting to have a good time and get to know the person they are on a date with but there is still always a risk that the fun guy you met a few days earlier might be a total lunatic of a real bore or that you will just not get on as well alone as you do with a big group of mates to back you up. I suppose the biggest rule of gay dating is to make sure that your potential is singing from the same hymn sheet and they know that it is a date you are expecting and not just two going out together, Make sure you are clear about your sexual orientation or it could lead to some pretty embarrassing explaining if your 'date' suggests that you go to a lap dancing club to see some tits.
Following a few rule that are universal to gay dating (as well as dating for heterosexuals) should keep your evening as light an enjoyable as possible.
Meet in a public place and try to include an activity. Try to avoid places like the cinema where it is difficult to talk and instead go for something like the zoo or a museum that you know well. Daytime dates work well for a first date so suggesting going for coffee usually works well. If you are enjoying yourself, you can always extent the date.
Tip: Keep a friend on stand-by. Get them to call you if you feel like you really need to escape.
Treat your date like a prospective new friend. Even if everything does not go so well on the gay dating front, you might find that you have git yourself a new partner in crime or you maybe that the person you are on a date with is not for you but is perfect for a friend.
Tip: Steer the conversation away from the overtly sexual on a first date. Even if that is all that is on your mind it doesn't hurt to wait until the next time.
Gay dating or not it is important to dress comfortably and in your own style. There is no point in making out that you only ever wear designer suits when you are a jeans and tee shirt kind of guy. Wearing an outfit that is usual for you will help you to relax and convey your own personality.
Tip: Try to find out details of where you are going in case you do need to dress accordingly. If you are organising, give your date a head's up.
All in all though dating is about having fun and meeting new people, and the decision about whether you want to see your date again or not lies with you. Gay dating, straight dating, transgender dating - call it what you like, it's all just human nature.
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Article Source :
http://www.articleseen.com/Article_The Best Gay Dating Tips_62177.aspx
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Author Resource :
The author writes on social networking and community websites about Gay Chat resources and the use of gay tv for chat and interaction.
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Keywords :
gay chat, gay dating, gay tv,
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Arts and Entertainment
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Arts and Entertainment
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