How to get A Beautiful Asian Girlfriend - 10 Tips For Attracting Beautiful Asian Women
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If you're attracted to Asian women, I can definitely relate to you. I love beautiful Asian women and have dated girls from many different cultures and countries, including Japan, Thailand, Korea, Indonesia and the Philippines.
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If you're attracted to Asian women, I can definitely relate to you. I love beautiful Asian women and have dated girls from many different cultures and countries, including Japan, Thailand, Korea, Indonesia and the Philippines.
There are many reasons why Asian women make us feel a powerful attraction, and why they can be ideal partners for a guy like yourself. However, in order to be successful with Asian women, you first need to understand how they think and what they expect from men and relationships. So here are ten tips that will help you make the right first impression on hot Asian girls, and move things towards romance...
1. First, you need to realize that the term "Asian women" is very broad and contains a lot of sub-categories. Most Western guys think the "Asian women" label refers only to Japanese or Chinese women. The term Asian actually includes over include 40 different nationalities and ethnic groups. There are many variations in the Philippines alone, where there's been a lot of mixing of different cultures over the centuries. (For example, some filipinas you meet will have more of a "Latina" look due to the Spanish influence, while others have a more "oriental" look due to the Chinese influence.)
Also, on this subject, you should never mention to her that you've dated other Asian women before. This is not going to make her feel like you "understand" her. Actually, there's a good chance that she will feel resentful. She needs to feel that she is unique and special to you. Also, Asian women who live in Western countries are very sensitive to the idea of "yellow fever" -- Western guys who have a fetish for Asian girls. If she gets the sense that you're only into her because of her race, you can forget about hooking up with her.
2. The popular belief that Asian women are meek and subservient is simply not true -- however, these are extremely feminine women (which is a good thing) and they desire to be with men who are masculine and will play the role of provider and protector. This is a big reason why so many Western men -- who live in "feminized" cultures where women want to wear the pants -- find Asian women to be so alluring. Asian women are purely feminine and make a man feel like a MAN.
So, when you're with an Asian woman, the worst thing you can be is clingy and emotionally needy. Asian guys do not act this way. Asian girls want to know that their man is emotionally strong and capable of making her feel safe and secure. They are turned off by men who are overly sensitive and can't control their emotions.
3. Asian women are particularly attracted to guys who treat them like gentlemen, but have somewhat of a mischevious "bad boy" edge. They also find it highly attractive when a strong, masculine guy can display a softer, more playful side. Hollywood stars like Brad Pitt, Leonardo DiCaprio, Matt Damon, and George Clooney are very popular in Asia because they exhibit these qualities. Just remember, be even-tempered and emotionally stable when you are with Asian women. Never lose your cool.
4. Next, it is very important for you to intelligent and preferably well-educated. Asian culture puts a strong emphasis on education and wisdom. It will also help you to attract more Asian women if you have a variety of interests and hobbies that you are passionate about. Give her the sense that by spending time with you, she will grow as a person, learn new things, and enjoy new experiences.
5. Always behave yourself in public. Guys who are loud, rude, or "show off" in public aren't going to get anywhere with hot Asian girls. They also appreciate proper manners, such as helping them to remove their coat, or pulling out their chair and helping them to sit down in a restaurant.
6. Demonstrate some familiarity with her country, its culture, and her religion. Having an appreciation for her native cuisine is also very helpful. If she is Westernized, she probably eats Western food, generally--but when she's with her family, they surely still cook their favorite exotic dishes. Learning to cook one of her favorite ethnic meals for her will score you big points.
7. A tip for all you guys who are communicating over the Internet with women from Asian countries: get her to chat with you on a webcam as soon as possible. There are a ton of girls on the Asian dating sites who are looking to find a foreign boyfriend, which is great, but there are a lot of games being played. Some women will post misleading pictures in their profile, or in some cases they'll use a picture of another person entirely. If she has an excuse why she can't appear on webcam, you can assume she's trying to hide something. Every scene I've visited in Asia, from the big cities to the poor provinces, now has Internet cafes -- and if the computer she's using doesn't have a webcam, there must be one nearby.
8. Never give Asian women the impression that you are a "playboy" who dates different women and isn't interested in having a serious relationship with anyone. Asian girls want to know that there at least a CHANCE of you getting serious with her. You don't need to talk about any of this heavy "relationship stuff" when you're first getting to know her, but you definitely don't want to give her the impression that you're only looking for fun with no strings attached. (In the Philippines, they call these guys "butterflies" -- always flittering from one flower to the next.)
9. High-tech gadgets are very popular with Asian women -- the latest mobile phones, digital cameras, laptops, etc. You'll impress Asian girls if you carry any of these items (and they also make for great conversation starters). Asian men usually know a lot about this stuff. And it also helps for you to be comfortable with computers, because to an educated Asian women, this is a sign that you are a smart, upwardly mobile person.
10. Here's my last tip on being attractive to Asian women: understand and accept that they have extremely close ties to their families. Don't tell her that she needs to be more independent and ignore their advice or wishes. This can be challenging, because there may be times when you want to spend time with your girl but it always seems like she has family commitments. Getting seriously involved with an Asian girl from an impoverished family can also cause problems, as she may expect you to help her family financially (and when you start down this path, the financial requests will never end!). That being said, you simply need to be aware that Asian families are much more tight-knit and dependent upon each other that your typical disfunctional family in the West. If you're serious about an Asian girl, you'll also need to be respectul of her family. If they embrace you, then there is no question that your Asian girl will love and appreciate you deeply.
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