How to Develop Good Self-controlling Ability for Children
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Sep-29-2011
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In classes, some children could only concentrate their attention for 15 minutes and they will be naughty to influence teachers and other students. These children have poor self-control ability. As parents, they could not always blame children but try to find the roots of self-control deficiency.
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In classes, some children could only concentrate their attention for 15 minutes and they will be naughty to influence teachers and other students. These children have poor self-control ability. As parents, they could not always blame children but try to find the roots of self-control deficiency.
Physiological reasons: Premature adverse, caesarean birth or other adverse factors can cause such problems. For example, children of caesarean birth are prone to have vestibule balance dysfunction, which will lead to the necessity of walking around. Some children have insufficient exercise in growing period, such as insufficient crawling in appropriate age will cause slow speed in writing. Some children always make troubles because they do not have the consciousness that their body locations could influence others. Therefore, children need more activities, which not only help the body’s development but also contribute to cognitive development. The good response, balance, strength and speed could encourage children to participate in social interaction and get peer recognition.
Environment: Children like watching television especially cartoons for their bright colors and sweet sounds. When they participate in classes, the simple teaching and learning could not catch their attention. Thus, many children could concentrate their whole attention in class. Under the current teaching mode, parents are suggested to bring their children to participate in more games and activities instead of watching television.
Personal characteristics: Every child is born with different temperament, and some of them are irritable and some of them are quite. Bad-tempered children often lose control on their behaviors. This temperament is influenced by innate factors or parents’ behaviors.
Poor education mode: Both the violent or loose parenting could cause insufficient self-control and weak willpower.
To overcome the above factors, parents could take active measurements to train their children. Parents are the first teachers of children, and children will learn lot life wisdom from their parents. So, parents should show their methods to deal with issue and how to express feelings so that their children could learn from them. The respective and effective communication between parents and children is useful to help them. Children could feel more attention from children and they will be active in correcting disadvantages. Through some training such as drawing or singing, children could cultivate their concentrated attention and patience and enjoy the happiness of success.
Through the above analysis, I think it is not difficult for parents to help their children improve their self-control ability.
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Article Source :
http://www.articleseen.com/Article_How to Develop Good Self-controlling Ability for Children_86896.aspx
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Keywords :
Self-control, ability, children, develop,
Category :
Home and Family
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Parenting
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