How To Meet Asian Women - Pickup And Seduction Tips
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Over the course of my years as a dating trainer, I've taught countless of guys how to meet Asian women in every imaginable scenario. Many of these guys have been extremely successful. I've seen shy dudes who were scared to approach girls turn into "approach machines" who suddenly began to meet new girls every day -- and got more phone numbers than they knew what to do with!
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Over the course of my years as a dating trainer, I've taught countless of guys how to meet Asian women in every imaginable scenario. Many of these guys have been extremely successful. I've seen shy dudes who were scared to approach girls turn into "approach machines" who suddenly began to meet new girls every day -- and got more phone numbers than they knew what to do with!
It's been gratifying to see very timid students of mine, who were once too scared to talk to hot chicks and clueless about how to approach women, transform into "approach machines" who were able to meet new girls on a daily basis (even just shopping at the mall!) and always score digits, dates and even hook-ups the same night.
However, a man's sense of "approach confidence" can really take a hit when he finds himself wanting to walk up and talk to an extraordinarily beautiful Asian female.I'm not talking about a run-of-the-mill girl here; I'm talking about a stone-cold stunner. You know, the kind of female who, when she strolls into a room, causes every guy in the surrounding area to stop and stare.
So is there a way to heighten your likelihood of great results with this kind of woman?The answer, in actuality, is relatively easy: you use the same approach strategies that I advise you use with any woman, but after you use one of my "transition" moves to engage her in the conversation, you use Teases and Cold Reads to NEUTRALIZE her "hotness factor" and in fact use it to your advantage.
I know you're probably wondering what Teases and Cold Reads are. Well, they're two very powerful manuevers that you should use when you flirt with women. Really, these are two of my favorite conversational "weapons."
For the purposes of this article, I'll just tell you real quick that Teases are things that you say to women in a playful way, that instill a very important idea in their minds: that you are NOT a predictable dude who is bowled over and staggered by the way she looks.
If you tease a woman the right way -- remember it's about being PLAYFUL, not rude -- you're treating her as you would act towards an old buddy -- joking around, not taking things too seriously. When you're hanging out with someone you've known for a while, you're obviously going to tease and joke around with that person. By using Teases with a hot woman, in a strategic way, you are establishing that you're not fazed by her good looks and you are relating to her as a normal person.
Of course, this is exactly the OPPOSITE of how the average guy conducts himself when he is talking to a gorgeous female. This dude can't even carry on a normal conversation because he's so terrified of saying the WRONG thing and screwing it up!
As for Cold Reads, these are STATEMENTS that you make to a woman about herself. It's as if you're playing "psychic" and telling her something about herself that no other dude in the room would ever guess.
Effectively using a Cold Read makes you seem amazingly perceptive and it instantly creates a bond between you and the girl. But the really clever thing about Cold Reads is that they apply to virtually anyone. You're telling her something about herself that SOUNDS profound, but the same statement would apply to just about anyone you used it on.
So after you approach a woman and use an effective opener to start the conversation -- and there are many of of these in my book -- you'll use a Transition tactic to move things onto the right subject matter. Then, you can employ Teases and Cold Reads:
Example of a Tease: "Cindy, I gotta say, I misjudged you at first. I can sense that there is a lot more to you than meets the eye...it's too bad you aren't my type." (Then, you change the subject and leave her wondering WHY you just said that...)
And here's a Cold Read: "You know, Cindy, I'm sure that most guys get the wrong idea about you when they first meet you. You have this tough exterior, but I know it's only because you've been hurt in the past by someone who you really trusted. Since then, you've been cautious about letting new people get close to you. But the funny thing is, they don't realize what a sweet, sincere, sensitive person you really are."
(This Cold Read works especially well with fine-looking women, because they are always worried that people are ONLY judging them based on their looks. Gorgeous girls are often a lot more insecure than you would think, and like to be appreciated for their OTHER qualities -- their intelligence, sense of humor, personality, etc.)
It really isn't difficult to learn how to approach women. When you blend these strategies with other effective conversational methods, you have the blueprint for a highly positive interaction that will trigger all of her "attraction buttons" and and make her genuinely interested and attracted in you. Scoring her phone number will be no problem at all -- and where you take it from there is up to you. Over the course of my years as a dating coach, I have showed thousands of guys how to approach women in all types of situations. A lot of my students have been extremely successful. I've seen shy dudes who were terrified to try to talk to women turn into "approach machines" who suddenly began to meet new girls all the time (even while walking down the street!) -- and got more phone numbers than they knew what to do with!
It's been rewarding to see extremely timid students of mine, who were previously scared to talk to hot chicks and clueless about how to approach women, turn into "approach machines" who were able to meet new women on a daily basis (even while simply walking down the street!) and constantly obtain digits, dates and even hook-ups the same night.
However, a guy's level of confidence can take a lethal hit -- and that dreaded "approach anxiety" can come creeping back in -- when he is faced with the mission of approaching an extremely beautiful hottie.I'm talking about walking up to a stunner. A "perfect 10." You know, the kind of babe who, when she walks into a room, causes every guy in the surrounding area to stop and stare.
The answer to this, actually, is not that difficult: you're doing to make the most of the exact same approach methods that I tell my students to use with any female, but soon after you use one of my "bridging" tactics to get her engaged in the conversation with you, are going to use two particular moves -- Cold Reads and Teases -- so that her tremendous good looks won't even be a factor.
So what are Cold Reads and Teases, exactly? Well, they're two very dominant manuevers that you should use when you flirt with women. Basically, these are two of my favorite conversational "weapons."
For now, the short answer is that Teases are playful things you say to girls to "mess with them" a little bit, and establish that you're NOT unsettled or super-impressed by them.
If you tease a woman the right way -- remember it's about being PLAYFUL, not rude -- you're framing the encounter as if you are already familar and comfortable with her, which prompts her to treat you in the same manner. When you're chilling with someone you've known for a while, you're naturally going to tease and joke around with that person. By using Teases with a hot babe, in a strategic way, you are showing that you're not fazed by her good looks and you are relating to her as a normal person.
This is the opposite of how most guys behave around a stunner. This guy can't even carry on a normal conversation because he's so frightened of saying the WRONG thing and screwing it up!
Now, as for Cold Reads, these are really powerful. Basically, you "read" her and tell her something about herself -- as if you've got psychic powers and understand her on a deeper level.
A good Cold Read makes you look amazingly perceptive and it immediately establishes a bond between you and the woman. And the clever thing about an effective Cold Read statement is that they apply to virtually any woman. Whether you say it to your sister, or to a hottie at the club, she's going to nod her head and agree with your assessment .
So, the approach will begin with an effective opener. Then you'll use a Transition (or "Bridge") tactic to get the conversation onto the right type of topic. And then, you will tactfully use Teases and Cold Reads.
TEASE: "Y'know, Cindy, I think I misjudged you at first. I can tell there's more to you than meets the eye. It's just too bad you're not my type..." (then change the subject)
And here's a Cold Read: "You know, Cindy, I'm sure that most people get the wrong idea about you when they see you for the first time. You have this tough exterior, but I know it's only because you've been hurt in the past by someone who you really trusted. Since then, you've been cautious about letting new people get close to you. But the funny thing is, they don't realize what a sweet, sincere, sensitive person you truly are."
(This Cold Read works especially well with stunning girls, because they are always worried that people are ONLY judging them based on their beauty. Gorgeous girls are often a lot more insecure than you would think, and like to be appreciated for their OTHER qualities -- their intelligence, sense of humor, personality, etc.)
It really isn't difficult to learn how to approach women. Every time you merge these tactics with other effective conversational strategies, you have the formula for a highly positive interaction that will hit all of her "attraction switches" and and make her genuinely interested and attracted in you. Scoring her phone number will be no problem at all -- and where you take it from there is up to you. Over the course of my long career as a dating instructor, I've showed thousands of students how to approach women in every imaginable scenario. Many of these guys have been extremely successful. I've seen shy students who were scared to try to talk to women turn into "approach machines" who all of a sudden began to meet new girls on a daily basis -- and got more phone numbers than they knew what to do with!
It's been enjoyable to watch incredibly quiet students of mine, who were once too scared to talk to females and clueless about how to approach women, turn into "approach masters" who were able to meet new women on a daily basis (even while simply shopping at the mall!) and constantly rack up phone numbers, dates and even one-night stands.
I'm talking about walking up to a stunner. A "perfect 10." The kind of babe who makes every dude stop and stare when she enters the room.
What's the most effective way to walk up to a hottie like THAT?Well, the answer is actually quite uncomplicated: you use the same approach tactics that I advocate you use with any girl, but after you use one of my "transition" moves to engage her in the conversation, you use Teases and Cold Reads to NEUTRALIZE her "hotness factor" and in fact use it to your advantage.
So what are Cold Reads and Teases, precisely? Well, they're two very dominant manuevers that you should use when you flirt with women. Basically, these are two of my favorite conversational "weapons."
For the purposes of this article, I'll just tell you real quick that Teases are things that you say to women in a playful way, that plant a very important idea in their subconscious: that you are NOT an average guy who is bowled over and amazed by how hot she is.
If you tease a hottie (the RIGHT way), you're treating her as you would treat an old buddy -- joking around, not taking things too seriously. When you're chilling with someone you've known for a long time, you're of course going to tease and joke around with that person. And so, when you tease a sexy babe, you're implying that you are totally comfortable with her. Nothing about her fazes you.
This is the opposite of how most guys behave around a super hot girl. This guy can't even carry on a normal conversation because he's so scared of saying the WRONG thing and messing it up!
As for Cold Reads, these are STATEMENTS that you make to a woman about herself. It's as if you're playing "psychic" and telling her something about herself that no other dude in the room would ever guess.
When you use an effective Cold Read, it makes you look like an extremely perceptive guy who "gets" her -- and this can create a powerful bond, very fast. But the really clever thing about Cold Reads is that they apply to virtually anyone. You're telling her something about herself that SOUNDS deep, but the same statement would apply to just about anyone you used it on.
So, the approach will begin with an effective opener. Then you'll use a Transition (or "Bridge") tactic to get the conversation onto the right type of theme. And then, you will tactfully use Teases and Cold Reads.
Example of a Tease: "Cindy, I gotta say, I misjudged you at first. I can sense that there is a lot more to you than meets the eye...it's too bad you aren't my type." (Then, you change the focus and leave her wondering WHY you just said that...)
COLD READ: "Y'know something Cindy, I can sense that a lot of people get the wrong impression of you when they first see you. You have this tough exterior, but it's because you've been hurt before by someone that you trusted, and you're cautious sometimes about meeting new people. But they don't realize what a sweet, sensitive person you really are underneath."
(This Cold Read works especially well with fine-looking females, because they are often concerned that people are ONLY judging them based on their beauty. Gorgeous girls are often a lot more insecure than you would think, and like to be appreciated for their OTHER qualities -- their intelligence, sense of humor, personality, etc.)
Honestly, it isn't difficult to learn how to meet Asian women. Whenever you merge these techniques with other effective conversational techniques, you have the formula for an interaction that will set off all of her "attraction buttons" and and make her genuinely interested and attracted in you. Getting her phone number will be guaranteed -- and from that point on, you'll be in charge of steering this wherever you want it to go.
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