Honeymoon Impotency: Psychogenic or Organic In Nature?
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Honeymoon is one of the most beautiful phases of one's life. It marks the consummation of love and the initiation of a life-long relation. Everyone wishes their honeymoon to be the most pleasant memory of their lives. Earlier, honeymoon was a luxury available only to the elite, but nowadays it has become a part of the post-marital routine.
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Every couple wishes to go away to exotic locales, with tropical beaches, and complete privacy. Then there is the "The First Night” though reduced to a mere romantic concept now, it does have an element of truth to it. Though it may not literally be the first night spent together, it definitely is the first night the couple is spending as husband and wife. Everyone has their own interpretation of its significance.
In those countries were the pre-marital strictures are zealously followed, it signifies the first instance where the man and woman are reveling in physical pleasure. Naturally, then they would have certain pre-conceived notions regarding sex and no concrete ideas. As a result, often there are unrealistic expectations from their partners on part of both the man and the woman which when unfulfilled cause dissatisfaction. The person is also worried about satisfying his/her partner which causes worry. Especially among men when they feel they were unable to satisfy their partner they feel under-confident and start underestimating themselves. When a man is so worried about satisfying his partner and under confident about himself his mind is elsewhere occupied and hence he is unable to have an erection or to sustain it for long. This is because due to the stress on his mind, he does not get sexually excited and thus further stimulation is not possible.
Psychologists have always said that the mind affects the body in any ways. Many disorders called, psycho-somatic disorders occur due the mind. Hence, according to this theory, positive thoughts keep you healthy whereas negative thoughts rob you of health. Similarly, then when the men are unsure of themselves, their body will be in synch with their thoughts and hence out of synch with their partners. The problem of honeymoon impotency is mostly seen in men, who are having sexual intercourse for the first time. Also in, some religions sex is considered to be evil, and should be considered only as a means of propagating the family, by begetting an heir, progeny. When this is the mindset of the man on his honeymoon, it is but natural that the whole scenario becomes mechanical, and hence the man is unable to receive stimulation, be it self-stimulation or to the stimulation provided by his partner.
Researchers have stated that this phenomenon is most observed in Turkey, that too with relatively young men. The complaints of these otherwise virile men range from inability to have an erection, to sustain an erection and to have an orgasm. The doctors conducted extensive tests on these men and were surprised to find out that most of these men had good sperm count and no erectile dysfunction. Then they conclude that this impotency is psychogenic in nature. In fact, researchers state that "Honeymoon Impotency” is not restricted to men having sex for the first time; it was even observed in men who have had sexual intercourse many times before. Yet when they went for a honeymoon with their spouse of many years they experienced impotency like symptoms.
There is however speculation amongst researchers, that this disorder may not in entirety be psychogenic but also be slightly organic in nature. Most men when out on honeymoon, either drink heavily or eat too much, or eat too little. It’s a stated fact that greasy, oily food is not conducive to fertility and neither is over-exertion. There are certain foods that act like anti-aphrodisiac or aphrodisiacs, like cilantro, which popularly used for garnishing in all restaurants. Other well-known and aphrodisiacs are Corn-Flakes and licorice. So avoid these foods and all items that contain them. Also, if men go to bed directly after eating heavy dinner, their sexual drive won't support their passionate endeavors.
The treatment for Honeymoon Impotency includes psycho-therapy, where the aim of the doctor is to boost the confidence of the patient, and to improve his self-image. Standard medicinal treatment for honeymoon impotence is Viagra, Cialis, and penile injections. Dr. Ghanem's team reports good results for Cialis (tadalifil): Thirty-four patients (76%) needed tadalafil for less than 1 month, five (11%) for up to 3 months, and two (4%) for more than 3 months. Four patients (9%) were unsuccessful. It was found out that, patients were most receptive to Viagra as well. So the best options for men is to take care what goes into your mouth and also keep some aphrodisiacs with you. Medicines like Viagra can be used without prescription so you can order them beforehand, and keep them handy. Viagra is very expensive so you can opt for Generic Viagra, which can be ordered online as well.
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Austin Scott , is a Medical Marketing manager. his field of interest lies in the ailments that concern the sexual health of men. He has given detailed information on various health issues and many patent pills like Generic Viagra, Online Kamagra in his Viagra Blog.
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