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Dating Advice: 5 Minutes to Finding the Love of Your Life
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Oct-27-2011
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We all want an amazing love relationship, yet in today's dating scene it is harder than ever to find the love of your life. Does this scenario sound familiar? You meet that special person you really like. You go out on a few dates and think there may be a real connection there for you. Then you discover that the person is not a good fit, and even worse, a huge disappointment!. At its very best this strategy can help you find the love of your life in about 5 minutes.
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We all want an amazing love relationship, yet in today's dating scene it is harder than ever to find the love of your life. Does this scenario sound familiar? You meet that special person you really like. You go out on a few dates and think there may be a real connection there for you. Then you discover that the person is not a good fit, and even worse, a huge disappointment!
And what did you get in return? More wasted time and energy, but what if you could find out in about 5 minutes if a person has the potential to be the love of your life?
Find Out in 5 Minutes
There are a series of four steps to finding the love of your life in Conscious Dating:
1.Scouting is the process of finding people to meet.
2.Sorting is the process of quickly determining in a conversation if someone you meet is a person you would like to get to know.
3. Screening is the process of gathering enough information to determine if someone meets your requirements or not.
4. Testing is the process of gaining experience and knowledge about the relationship and the potential partner to determine if they meet your requirements.
The sorting step is where you can potentially find the love of your life in five minutes and the power introduction is your key.
Welcome to the Power Introduction
What is a power introduction? A power introduction is a method of introduction to help determine whether or not you have something in common with someone.
When and where should you use a power introduction? Use the power introduction anytime and anywhere you wish to engage someone you think you might be interested in getting to know better.
Why use the power introduction?
* It allows you to be the chooser.
* It allows you to remain objective and not get swept away by attraction.
* It allows you to engage and disengage gracefully, and with confidence.
How does it work? First you have to know who you are, in other words be authentic. Know what you want and know that you will get what you want.
When you engage someone introduce yourself and begin determining in a conversation if the person is what you want and if you are what they want. The key is to share about yourself first and then share some questions which address your key requirements. Your goal is to sort them in a short amount of time - 5 minutes.
If you get a green or yellow light, don't leave without getting a phone number or a business card! On the other hand, if you get a red light, disengage gracefully by saying something nice and thanking the person for their time.
Remember: A good power introduction is an exchange of information, not just asking someone a list of questions and then judging them on their answers. However, take care not to reveal everything about you too early. Revealing all that you are takes time.
The power introduction can help you save some time when you are trying to determine whether or not you have enough in common with someone to take the time to get to know them. At its very best this strategy can help you find the love of your life in about 5 minutes.
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Article Source :
http://www.articleseen.com/Article_Dating Advice: 5 Minutes to Finding the Love of Your Life_96938.aspx
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Author Resource :
Robert S Simpson, CTACC, is a Relationship Coach, pastor, strategist/planner, gourmet chef and founder of http://www.theloveplan.com. He loves to help single business professionals create their own customized relationship plan and find the love of their life and live the life they love. To create your relationship plan, go to www.theloveplan.com/
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Keywords :
relationships advice, the love plan, relationship coaching, relationship plan, successful dating, relationship skills, relationshi,
Category :
Society
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Dating
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