Body Language Flirting - How To Make Women Eager To Touch You
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Normally, the process of meeting and seducing a woman starts with making eye contact. Making eye contact with her, and smiling, is one of the surest ways to display confidence and establish a connection.
As the saying goes, "the eyes are the window to the soul," and this form of contact can really be just as powerful as physical touch. But in order to pull off a successful seduction, you will need to start using physical touch during the interaction.
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Normally, the process of meeting and seducing a woman starts with making eye contact. Making eye contact with her, and smiling, is one of the surest ways to display confidence and establish a connection.
As the saying goes, "the eyes are the window to the soul," and this form of contact can really be just as powerful as physical touch. But in order to pull off a successful seduction, you will need to start using physical touch during the interaction.
Essentially, this means you touch her and use flirty body language. Not in an aggressive way. In a very subtle, "invisible" way that she doesn't consciously notice.
But on a subconscious level, she's registering your touch and she is beginning to feel physically comfortable with you. This is the key to using body language flirting effectively.
Picture the following scenario, which most guys have gone through:
You take a girl out on a date, and you have a pleasant time with her. It seems to be going fine. But in the back of your mind, you're wondering about how tonight is going to end.
When you drop her off at her house..or when you walk her out to her car...are you going to attempt to kiss her? You want that kiss (badly!), but you're already worried that it might seem too "forward," or too aggressive, or that she won't be "ready" for it...
This is why in most cases, the date simply concludes with a friendly handshake, or hug, or a quick kiss on the cheek -- and nothing more.
Or about this situation? You take a girl to the movies, and when you sit down, you want to put your arm around her... or snuggle up close to her...but you don't want her to feel weird or uncomfortable. So for the next two hours, you don't touch her... and the whole time, you are wishing that you could be.
The way to solve these challenges is to lay a foundation of body contact.
If you use body language flirting the right way, it's a slow, natural progression -- and remember, you have to initiate it.
The way to prep her for holding hands...kissing her...and eventually sleeping with her...is to establish subtle physical contact, and use these body language flirting tactics, early on. You want to make her feel comfortable with the idea of touching you, and you touching her. In other words, you want to "warm her up!"
So how do you accomplish this? Here are a few ways:
Body Language Flirting Tip #1: When one of you says something funny and you both start launghing, give her a high-five. Don't "slap" her hand the way you would do it with one of your pals. Put your hand up, and when she puts up hers, clasp it gently in your hand and intertwine your fingers with hers. Hold it for a couple of seconds before letting her hand go.
On a conscious level, she doesn't even really notice that you just made physical contact with her. But you did.
Likewise, when you want to emphasize something you are telling her, you can reach over and place your hand on her forearm, or on her hand, for a few seconds. This is just going to be a light touch. Then, slowly move your hand away.
Body Language Flirting Tip #2: Instead of touching her hand, if you're sitting down with her you can touch her knee for a moment. While you do this, maintain eye contact with her. Again, she won't be THINKING about the fact that you are touching her knee, but her brain is registering it...and she is feeling at ease with it.
Body Language Flirting Tip #3: When you are holding open the door for her, simply place your hand on the small of her back (gently) and subtly guide her through the door.
See, her brain is picking up the message that you are a MASCULINE presence who is there to look out for her. She knows that she is with a man -- not a wussy "nervous guy" who is scared to make any physical contact with her.
As the conversation keeps flowing, you can increase the frequency and length of your "touches". Your flirting body language can become more frequent and intimate.
A little later, you might reach and gently brush the hair out of her eyes...and this won't feel unnatural to her. She'll enjoy your touch, and she's actually start to miss it when you don't give it to her.
In the same sense, it won't feel weird if you learn in close and whisper a "private joke" into her ear. (This can really give a girl goose bumps -- in a great way!)
This is all laying the groundwork for you to give her that first kiss. After I've done all the steps above, I like to give her a gentle kiss on the cheek after I've just said something in her ear.
Then, I go back to our normal conversation. I don't make a "big deal" out of that kiss. It all feels like a comfortable, natural progression.
This is the essence of using body language flirting to attract women. Ultimately, you're going to make her feel comfortable being with you in every sense...but only if you lay this foundation.
Now, while this flirtatious body contact is occurring, the other important tactic is to use "Strategic Conversation" to drive up her interest and attraction...
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But before we proceed, please heed this warning...
The Tactics contained in our FREE seduction manual will affect women on a subconscious level and trigger their deepest desires. We ask you to please use this information responsibly!
These are quite simply the most powerful methods if you want to master body language flirting, the art of strategic conversation, and how to "close the deal" with any woman.
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Keywords :
body language flirting, body language to attract women, body language flirt, girls body language,
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Society
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Dating
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