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Beginners Guide to Anal Sex

Posted On : Apr-15-2010 | seen (954) times | Article Word Count : 511 |

Anal sex is one of the first things that couples try once they have been together for the first time since it provides them with immense pleasure. However,
Anal sex is one of the first things that couples try once they have been together for the first time since it provides them with immense pleasure. However, there are so many myths about anal sex that quite a lot of couples end up doing it the wrong way and then later try to avoid it since the experience proved to be painful.

If you and your partner have been thinking about trying anal sex then there are a few tips and suggestions on how you can go about it.

Some Tips

• The most important things when it comes to anal sex is the lubricant. The silicone based lubricants are the best for this purpose since they do not dry out fast. However, avoid using too much of lubricant.

• Once you have lubricated your partner you should then begin to stimulate the area with your tongue and fingers. Just massage the area so that your partner relaxes and the muscles in the area relax a bit. This would also be very arousing for the woman so you should spend some time doing it.

• Make your partner relax as much as possible before you go ahead with it since it is very important. Massage the area gently and when you feel the muscles relaxing under your fingers then you can try to slowly insert a finger inside. Try moving your finger in and out slowly till your partner gets used to the idea.

• Breathing is very important during anal sex. Ask your partner to take deep relaxing breaths. When you insert your penis or finger inside your partner should exhale so that the muscles relax.

• Once your partner is comfortable with it you can then try to insert your penis. Be very careful to be gentle and slow with it. Do not forcibly push inside since it can be very painful for your partner. Let her open up for you and apply constant pressure. Do not go all the way inside the first time. Instead, allow her to get used to the whole idea and then move slowly inside her till your partner relaxes completely.

• Once your partner is a little relaxed you can then try to move a little faster.

• Let your partner be in charge and allow her to guide you throughout the session. Let her tell you whether she is comfortable or not, when to go slow and when to push in faster. This is very important if you are trying it for the first time.

Anal sex is not very difficult and not even painful if it is done properly. Ensure that once you are done you should both thoroughly wash yourself. Never have regular sex after trying anal sex with the same condom since it spreads infections. Although quite a lot of couples are edgy regarding the idea of anal sex, the fact is that anal sex actually feels really amazing. It is all about getting used to the idea and taking your time and going slow.

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